Sunday, October 26, 2025
He wanted to quickly walk his dog before we arrived. He entered the elevator with another resident also walking her dog.
The elevator started moving, suddenly stopped and then dropped six inches. Both of them grabbed the railings. Thankfully, aside from the brief jolt, they were unharmed. Unfortunately, the elevator was stuck.
They picked up the emergency phone, which connected them to a call center in India. The audio quality was terrible. After a frustrating conversation, they hung up and sat down to wait.
Neither of their cell phones had reception inside the elevator.
How long can you sit in an elevator with a dog who needs to pee before things go south?
Forty-five minutes later, they were freed. Instead of risking another elevator ride, they decided to take the stairs. What they didn’t realize was that the staircases in this building have one-way locking doors. Once inside the stairwell, the only way out is down—forty stories.
But, they had cell reception again. She called her husband, who came to meet them on their floor. Her dog, thrilled to see her husband, ran up and bumped into both him and the door—slamming it shut.
Now the three of them, plus two dogs, were trapped in the stairwell.
At this point, my brother-in-law’s dog couldn’t hold it any longer and peed in the stairwell.
They called several numbers before finally reaching someone who could come to the floor and carefully let them out.
Dinner was overcooked. We had a great time together.
Monday, October 20, 2025
Thursday, October 16, 2025
Our friend and his husband have rejoined us in Pigeon Forge.
Our cabin is remote and up a mountain. Having said that, it's only 15 minute drive to Pigeon Forge. We get the best of both worlds, city entertainment with evenings the evenings in splendid nature.
The trees are just starting to change to their fall colors. Maybe we arrived here a week to early... first world problems.
Saturday, October 11, 2025
Friday, October 10, 2025
Once a year, for the past few years, we've got together with some of my Husband's oldest friends. Last year it was at our home in Seattle. The year before that was Dallas. This year it's Tennessee.
So we are in Nashville for a few days, then heading over to Pigeon Forge Tennessee..
A few of us can work remote and will do a little of that while we are hear, The rest of the time we intend to enjoy the mountains, Dollywood, the food and a little exploring.
Monday, October 06, 2025
Fall has set in. Temperatures are cooler, though nothing uncomfortable. I have switched from shorts and short-sleeved shirts, to jeans and long sleeved. We are debating when to turn on the heat in the house. Afternoon and evening temperatures are pleasant. It can be too cool in the morning.
Allan has been falling off the wagon-- quietly, when no one is around. Most days, he is sober. His husband, Evan, travels for work a few times a month. When Evan does so, Allan spends much of his time inebriated. Not much I can do here, other than take care of myself and encourage Evan and my Husband to do the same.
The weather was wonderful over the weekend. Had dinner with the neighbors on Friday, old colleagues of my husband on Saturday and friends on Sunday. I'm ready for a bit of downtime.





