BD has been an acquaintance of the husband for years. They have known each other through the rooms of AA. They have worked on a few events together. BD retired a month ago and was planning much travel.
Then BD developed indigestion that that wouldn't go away. He went to the doctor. After much scanning BD discovered that he had pancreatic cancer.
He has about six months to live.
BD is sorting though his life now. His old sponsor has moved back to Seattle to help take care.
We will stay in touch as BD concludes his journey.
The value of life changes so much when you learn you have limited time.